"There is no chance, no fate, no destiny that can circumvent or hinder or control the firm resolve of a determined soul."
-Marion D. Hanks - (Elder Hanks asked "his" missionaries to memorize this statement when he was their mission president, as reported by Quentin L. Cook in October, 2011 General Conference talk.)
Feelings are always true. They may be based on "facts" that are real or imagined, but the feelings about the "facts," whether real or imagined, are true. We can learn to "school our feelings" so they work to our benefit and to the benefit of others.
“Relationships can be strengthened through the veil with people we know and love. That is done by our determined effort to continually do what is right.”